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“Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people.”

-Eleanor Roosevelt, 1901

Three types of kindness

There is the kindness of ‘please’ and ‘thank you.’ And the kindness of “I was wrong, I’m sorry.” The small kindnesses that smooth our interactions and help other people feel as though you’re aware of them. These don’t cost us much, in fact, in most settings, engaging with kindness is an essential part of connection, engagement and forward motion.

And then there is the kindness of dignity. Of giving someone the benefit of the doubt. The kindness of seeing someone for the person that they are and can become, and the realization that everyone, including me and you, has a noise in our heads, a story to be told, fear to be danced with and dreams to be realized.

And there’s another: The kindness of not seeking to maximize short-term personal gain. The kindness of building something for the community, of doing work that matters, of finding a resilient, anti-selfish path forward.

Kindness isn’t always easy or obvious, because the urgent race to the bottom, to easily measured metrics and to scarcity, can distract us. But bending the arc toward justice, toward dignity and toward connection is our best way forward.

Kindness multiplies and it enables possiblity. When we’re of service to people, we have the chance to make things better.

Source: Seth Godin

The trap of busy

Everyone who wants to be busy is busy.

But not everyone is productive.

Busy is simply a series of choices about how to spend the next minute.

Productive requires skill, persistence and good judgment. Productive means that you have created something of value.

Perhaps your self-created busy-ness is causing you to be less productive.

Source: Seth Godin

Born to run (things)

The first half of Bruce Springsteen’s autobiography makes some things abundantly clear:

He had no natural ability to play the guitar. In fact, after his first lessons, he quit, unable to play a note.

He had no singing talent. Every group he was part of needed a lead singer, and it wasn’t him.

And just about everyone dismissed him. Audiences walked out, his first agent simply stopped returning his calls and bandmates gave up and moved on.

He didn’t even know how to drive a car. Not only wasn’t he dating in high school, he wasn’t even cruising around town, being a charismatic rock star.

Talent is overrated. Skill is acquirable.

Showing up is something almost every creative leader has in common. In business, in the arts, in society. Consistently shipping the work, despite the world’s reaction, despite the nascent nature of our skill, despite the doubts.

And community is essential. The people you surround yourself with can reinforce your story, raise the bar and egg you on.

After the fact, the community becomes an integral part of your story of success. But first, you have to commit to the journey.

Source: Seth Godin

The Great Grift

NYU Stern School of Business Professor Galloway just published a great piece on the wealth transfer during the pandemic. It’s worth the read.

The Great Grift

Excerpt: “The wealthy use this influence to expand their wealth and power. Consider the tax code: Income gained from selling stock in a firm is taxed at a lower rate than income gained from actually working at that firm. A second transfer from poor to rich: A homeowner may deduct mortgage interest on a first and second home, while the less wealthy pay non-deductible rent. If it makes no sense that we’ve functionally decided money (and the money it makes) is more noble than sweat … trust your instincts.”

2020 Books Read

  1. The Ride of a Lifetime by Bob Iger
  2. Zero to One by Peter Thiel
  3. The Measure of a Man by Sidney Poitier
  4. Whistling Vivaldi by Claude Steele
  5. The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success by Deepak Chopra
  6. Creative Quest by Questlove
  7. We Should All Be Feminists by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
  8. Black Privilege by Charlamagne Tha God
  9. The Creature from Jekyll Island by G. Edward Griffin

  10. The Intelligent Investor by Ben Graham

  11. Originals by Adam Grant
  12. Dear Ijeawele, or A Feminist Manifesto in Fifteen Suggestions by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
  13. What got you here, won’t get you there by Marshall Goldsmith
  14. The Alchemist by Paulo Choelho
  15. Lead from the Outside by Stacey Abrams
  16. It’s About Damn Time by Arlan Hamilton
  17. The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida
  18. The Wisdom of Insecurity by Alan Watts
  19. Tough Love by Susan Rice
  20. The New Jim Crow by Michelle Alexander
  21. Finding Your Voice by Valerie Jarrett
  22. Heavy by Kiese Laymon
  23. Evicted by Matthew Desmond
  24. The Lean Startup by Eric Rice
  25. Secrets of Sand Hill Road by Scott Kupor
  26. The Road to Character by David Brooks
  27. The Trillion Dollar Coach by Eric Schmidt
  28. Steve Jobs by Walter Isaacson
  29. Digital Minimalism by Cal Newport
  30. The Audacity of Hope by Barack Obama
  31. The Color of Money by Merhsa Baradaran
  32. The Book on Rental Property Investing by Brandon Turner
  33. The Third Wave by Steve Case
  34. The State of Affairs by Esther Perel
  35. The Innovator’s Dilemma by Clayton Christensen
  36. The Magic of Thinking Big by David Schwartz
  37. The Art of War by Sun-Tzu
  38. The Souls of Black Folks by WEB DuBois
  39. Good to Great by Jim Collins
  40. Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel
  41. Why We Sleep by Matthew Walker
  42. Our time is now by Stacey Abrams
  43. Venture Deals by Brad Feld
  44. The Defining Moment by Jonathan Alter
  45. Dreams from my Father by Barack Obama
  46. Measure What Matters by John Doerr
  47. How to Be an Antiracist by Ibram Kendi
  48. Trailblazer by Marc Benioff
  49. Caste by Isabel Wilkerson
  50. The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle
  51. A Promised Land by Barack Obama
  52. The Truths We Hold by Kamala Harris

 

Finance & Investing
The Creature from Jekyll Island by G. Edward Griffin
The Intelligent Investor by Ben Graham
The Book on Rental Property Investing by Brandon Turner

Venture Capital & Entreprenuership
Venture Deals by Brad Feld
Secrets of Sand Hill Road by Scott Kupor
The Lean Startup by Eric Rice
Zero to One by Peter Thiel
Measure What Matters by John Doerr
The Third Wave by Steve Case
It’s About Damn Time by Arlan Hamilton

African-American History & Race
Caste by Isabel Wilkerson
How to Be an Antiracist by Ibram Kendi
Our time is now by Stacey Abrams
The Souls of Black Folks by WEB DuBois
The Color of Money by Merhsa Baradaran
The New Jim Crow by Michelle Alexander
Whistling Vivaldi by Claude Steele

Biographies
The Truths We Hold by Kamala Harris
A Promised Land by Barack Obama
Trailblazer by Marc Benioff
Dreams from my Father by Barack Obama
The Defining Moment by Jonathan Alter
The Audacity of Hope by Barack Obama
Steve Jobs by Walter Isaacson
Tough Love by Susan Rice
Finding Your Voice by Valerie Jarrett
Black Privilege by Charlamagne Tha God
The Ride of a Lifetime by Bob Iger
The Measure of a Man by Sidney Poitier
Lead from the Outside by Stacey Abrams

Marriage & Relationships
Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel
The State of Affairs by Esther Perel

Business Management & Leadership
Good to Great by Jim Collins
The Art of War by Sun-Tzu
The Magic of Thinking Big by David Schwartz
The Innovator’s Dilemma by Clayton Christensen
The Trillion Dollar Coach by Eric Schmidt
Originals by Adam Grant
What got you here, won’t get you there by Marshall Goldsmith

Random/Miscellaneous
Why We Sleep by Matthew Walker
Digital Minimalism by Cal Newport
The Road to Character by David Brooks
Heavy by Kiese Laymon
Evicted by Matthew Desmond
The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida
The Wisdom of Insecurity by Alan Watts
Creative Quest by Questlove
We Should All Be Feminists by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
Dear Ijeawele, or A Feminist Manifesto in Fifteen Suggestions by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
The Alchemist by Paulo Choelho
The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle
The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success by Deepak Chopra

 

“The only person you are destined to become is the person you decide to be.”

Ralph Waldo Emerson